Don 't get hung up on totting up your facebook friends but spend time nurturing the handful or so of relationships with people you can really confide in .
别总想着统计你facebook上的朋友数量-花些时间培育那些少数的你真正信任的关系。
Living in party headquarters she became so close to other leaders that she would confide in them ; they treated us as family members she says .
住在中南海，她和其他领导人她所信任的领导人熟悉起来，“他们对我们就像家人一般，”她说。
If this bold social experiment produces lots of isolated people there will of course be an outlet for their loneliness : they can confide in their robot pets and partners .